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Hello Reader,Each week, I share one insight, one prompt, and a short grounding practice to help you grow with AI in alignment, not overwhelm. This is for conscious entrepreneurs who value substance over shortcuts. AI Insight That Matters 💡Pick Up the Magic LampFriday morning. International cohort on Zoom. We had participants from Amsterdam to Abu Dhabi, Canada, the UK, and the USA, amongst others. Four-hour AI Build Sprint. We had just spent two hours setting up the human. Identity files. Project context. The frameworks each person actually uses to think. Brain, hands, files, and a heartbeat. The four parts of an AI agent. Then I shifted the room. "We have done all that work on the human. Now we get to pick up the magic lamp, rub it, and start wishing for the things AI could do for you." Silence. Not for a beat. For ten seconds. Long enough that I watched faces shift on the gallery view. Smart, ambitious founders who had been leaning in for two hours, suddenly looking at the ceiling. Then the wishes started. And almost all of them, in the first pass, were the same wish: "automate my workflow." "Triage my emails." "Build me an agent that does my marketing." These were not wishes. They were the captions on the box the tool came in. Here is what I saw in that ten-second silence. Tool-first thinking caps your imagination at whatever the tool obviously does. You open Claude or ChatGPT, you see a text box, your brain answers the question the text box is asking. Which is, what can I get this thing to write? You never get past the affordance. Wish-first thinking does something different. It starts inside you, not inside the tool. It asks what you actually want to be true about your week, your business, your time, your attention. Then the technology becomes a way to make those specific things real. The field expands to whatever you genuinely want, instead of contracting to whatever the tool is obviously good at. The catch is that you have to know what you want. That is the part nobody warned us about. The magic lamp is real. AI can do things we never imagined. And most of us, when handed a lamp, freeze. Not because the wish is hard to phrase. Because we have not been still enough, recently enough, to know what it is we want. This is the part of AI no one is teaching. The technology is the easy bit. The human knowing what they want is the bottleneck, and the better the tools get, the more visible that bottleneck becomes. Those who succeed won't be the ones with the best prompts. They will be the ones who have done enough quiet sitting to know what to wish for. AI Prompt That Works ✨The Wish InventoryRun this before your next AI work session, instead of opening Claude or ChatGPT and free-typing. It builds you a usable wish list grounded in your real week, ranked, with the first wish actionable today. Run it in Claude or ChatGPT. The Prompt: I am about to use AI for work this week.Before I open the tool and start prompting,help me figure out what I actually want.
My role: [YOUR ROLE / WHAT YOU DO].This week's reality: [3-5 BULLETS on what isactually on your plate, what is dragging, whatyou keep avoiding, what you wish were already done].
Do the following, in order.
1. WISHES. Based on what I told you, draft a list of 8 to 12 things I might genuinely wish were true by Friday. Mix small wishes (a message I keep avoiding sending) and large wishes (a decision I keep postponing). Phrase each one as the finished state, not the task.
2. PRESSURE TEST. For each wish, mark it H, M, or L for how much it would actually change my week if it were true. Cut the L wishes.
3. RANK. Order the surviving wishes by which one, if granted today, would unlock the most other wishes downstream. The top one is the keystone wish.
4. FIRST MOVE. For the keystone wish, write the single most useful first prompt I could run right now to start making it real. Specific to my context. Not a generic template.
If my "this week's reality" was vague, tell methat and ask me one sharp question that wouldmake it concrete. Do not invent.Run it Sunday night or Monday morning and notice what shifts when the AI session begins with what you want, not with what the tool can do. Grounding Practice ☯The Quiet LampThe prompt above will only work as well as the wishes you bring it. So before the prompt, the practice. Sit somewhere quiet. Five minutes. No phone, no notebook, no music. Picture a small brass lamp resting on the table in front of you. Old. Worn. Real enough that you can feel its weight. Ask yourself a single question, then stop talking. If I picked up this lamp right now, and three wishes were granted by Friday, what would they be? Do not write anything yet. Do not chase the first answers that arrive. The first answers are usually the ones somebody else taught you to want. Stay in the silence past comfortable. Past the urge to be productive. Past the second wave of borrowed wishes. Notice what shows up on the third wave, when you have run out of approved answers. That third wave is closer to what you actually want. Open your eyes. Write down what arrived, in your own words, without polishing it. Personal Note ❤️🔥“If a man knows not to which port he sails, no wind is favourable.” — Seneca I have been thinking about a question my friend Tom asked me, years ago now, over a coffee that was supposed to be a quick catch-up. I was deep in a build at the time. Several products in the air. Three or four moving partnerships. The diary so full it felt like proof of something. He listened to me describe it all, and then he asked, very quietly, "Yes, but what do you actually want?" I could not answer him. Not because I had no thoughts. Because every thought that came up was somebody else's wish in my voice. The next launch, the next number, the next thing on the next list. The lamp was in my hands the entire time, and I could not have told him what to wish for. That moment stayed with me. It is the same moment I watched land on the Sprint cohort on Friday. The freeze is not a failure of imagination. It is what happens when a life that has been very busy meets a question that requires stillness. I would love to tell you I solved that question for good back then. I did not. I still catch myself doing tool-first thinking on my own work. I noticed it this week, in fact, on the YouTube channel reset I am building. I sat down to "figure out what to film," which is a tool-first question, and the answer was vague and tired. The wish-first question, when I made myself ask it, was different, what do I want a viewer to walk away believing about themselves after seven minutes? That question I could answer. The Accelerator I run with Rosario at Humane Business is, in the end, a four-month practice in wish-first thinking applied to a business. Cohort 2 opens in September. The work is not learning the tools. The tools are easy. The work is learning to want clearly enough that the tools have something real to do. Seneca named the same thing two thousand years ago. The wind cannot help you if you do not know the port. The lamp cannot help you if you do not know the wish. 🎬 Go DeeperLatest from the blog: What Is an AI Agent? The four-part anatomy I taught on the Sprint, written down. Brain, hands, files, and a heartbeat. Useful background if the wish-first prompt above is your first time briefing an agent properly. On YouTube Step-by-step walkthroughs and tactical implementation for conscious AI integration.
Thanks for being here. If this resonates, share it with someone who would benefit from hearing this. Reply and let me know what landed for you. 🙏 Colin P.S. The Humane Business Accelerator Cohort 2 opens for enrolment soon, starting in September. Four months of wish-first practice applied to your business, with Rosario and me. Learn more here. |
Weekly field notes on scaling intelligence without losing your humanity. Get the strategic frameworks, unfiltered insights, and human-first AI methodologies.